Where was Lourdes Convent?

Lourdes Convent was between Withdean and Preston, I'm not sure if that would be London Road or Preston Road. It was nearly opposite Clermont Road.

It was in London Road, just north of Harrington Road. It is now the Preston Park Hotel.

The actual main convent was knocked down in the 1970s and I think it is now flats that are on the site. The junior school building is still there and is still a school.

Would you like to hear about Lourdes Convent in the 1950's? I still have nightmares about it. Five years there gave me a lifelong terror of nuns, even though I now know that they have human bodies under their habits.

I remember the convent well. I was a boarder from the age of nine (1963) full-time for a couple of years, then a weekly boarder and eventually a day-girl. I left when the school closed down and went into the sixth-form at Cardinal Newman.
It was just as you described and brings back a multitude of memories - mostly unhappy.
For the boarders it really was Draconian. Terrible food, long hours of study, very controlled free-time and very early bedtimes, with strict supervision. If one broke the rules one was easily punished. The nuns were not very sympathetic - and if one was ill - you could never see a doctor - my broken ankle was ignored for 3 days until my mother came and whisked me away to see our family doctor who sent me to the hospital for an x-ray - it was in plaster for 6 weeks. Gosh, I could go for ever - the memories (and smells - does anyone remember the dirty towel in the cubby hole in the main hall!) are all so vivid still. If anyone has any photos it would be so good to see them.

By the way, the flats that now occupy the site of the senior school are Kingsmere. It is such a shame that the chapel was demolished it really was such a beautiful building; there was also a gorgeous magnolia at the entrance near the gates that had the most magnificant blooms every year.

I attended Lourdes Convent between 1954 and 1959. I have so many memories of the place and my friends there. I too was totally intimidated by the nuns, although I realize now what a good education I received there. I remember walking up the driveway every morning and the first Reverend Mother (French) checking the length of our grey flannel shorts as we went to sports. I would love to hear from any of my classmates. I live in San Francisco after many years in Washington D.C. Glad I found this website!

I attended Lourdes Convent from 1959 to 1966 (1st form to upper 6th)and remember it fondly. I was in the huts for my fifth and lower sixth years. I am still in touch with a few of my friends from those days although some of us have scattered abroad, I am living in Chicago. I completely agree about the excellent education imparted there. I remember the magnolia tree in the drive and the beautiful chapel - it was heartbreaking to hear that it had been demolished and the school replaced by flats. I remember Mother Margaret Mary, Mother Lutgarde, Mother Catherine and Reverend Mother Paul although I must say some of them not too fondly.

Does anyone remember Miss Welstead who taught English literature?

Hello Janice, I remember you well. Do you remember you cut my hair once! Do you remember Sister Claire, the cook? "Awful!" I'm still living in Brighton, just grown up a bit now. I would like to hear from you, you can contact me on either of these addresses, josiebets@yahoo.co.uk or bluey.atkins@bluebottle.com. Here's hoping.

What a wonderful site! I was 8 in 1966 when I started at Lourdes. I was in tiny Mother Elizabeth's class and she was a saint. She taught embroidery and I still have my sample book! I remember Miss Tobin who also taught us Irish dancing, Miss Hamilton who terrified the be'Jesus out of us with her walking cane but was in fact a fantastic English teacher. I remember Sister Claire in the kitchen! Always muttering in French with her sleeves rolled up! I remember the terrible food, the piltchards :( but I recall doughnuts and fruitcake too. I loved Miss DePiva the gym teacher, the hockey field up top and the little wooden chalet/gym. I remember we were in houses, I was in Saint Theresa's which was yellow. I recall one of the very last assemblies when some hooligan senior had stuffed newspaper into the back of the piano so when Mr. Language sat down to play the hymns, no sound came out! Was he furious! I could go on and on. I too went onto Cardinal Newman and now live in Maryland USA. I was heart broken when I heard that the chapel and school had been demolished. All that polished wood! I did go back to snoop around the junior school about 10 years ago and the big tree on the front lawn where so many games of rounders with a tennis ball were played! Sigh!

I was at Lourdes Convent Junior School from 1956 to 1961. I remember the teachers were Miss Cavanagh, Mrs Baise, Mrs Thompson, Miss Lamb (who was my godmother), Mother Elizabeth, Mrs Rogers and Mrs Tobin. (Not sure about all the spellings and whether I have correctly assigned Mrs and Miss.) There were quite a lot of boys in the lower classes, but most disappeared - presumably whisked off to prep schools or the Xaverian College - when they were seven. When I was in Miss Lamb's class I think there only two boys in a class of about 16. It was an advantage being a boy. I too remember Mother Claire and the awful food. Half cooked sausages, lumpy mashed potato, cabbage with caterpillars and, worst of all, parsnips. The vegetables came from the kitchen garden, but had no hint of being fresh. The only good thing was the rice pudding. The junior dining room was supervised by Mother Imelda who made sure you ate the last scrap. She also took the class for first communion and I recall almost every moment of the day. We were allowed in the blue drawing room in the main school! The education was sound if unimaginative. I learned to write with a dip pen. Religion did not feature as strongly as may be thought - there was far more emphasis on it at the state primary school I moved to in 1961. As a small boy the grounds seemed immense with the drive, lawns, tennis courts, kitchen garden and everything. They stretched from Preston Road back to Cornwall Gardens. Form my last year I remember Catherine Marcus, Theresa Moody, Philippa Read, Susan Wheeler, Christine Thamides, Frances ?, Maureen ?, Joyce ?, Hilary ? and the only other boy, Martin Camlin.

Lisa Waltman, Hi, I remember you well. We were in the same class with Miss Tobin and I guess with Mother Elizabeth as we started the same year, though I don't remember you in Mother Elizabeth's class, age is catching up with memory. But we were in different classes when we moved up to Senior School. We both loved horses, in fact I think most of the class did. I still have the brass horseshoe door knocker you gave me for my birthday one year.

I was at Lourdes Convent from 1953-59. I remember Mother Madelaine (taught French), Mother Claire (cook), Miss Hamilton (upper third), Miss Loakman (History). I would love to hear from any of my class-mates. My e-mail address is getdaisy@comcast.net. I am living in San Francisco now.
Hope to hear from any of you

Oh happy days. Hi, You may remember me. I was the gardener at Lourdes between 1947 and 1961. I lived with my wife and Linda and Jill, my daughters, in the cottage in the playground attached to the junior school. Yes, I was the one that supplied all that cabbage, caterpillars and all, plus a few things that I hope you did enjoy. Yes I did know that some of the fruit was nicked by certain young ladies. Of that I shall say no more. I know I used to disturb you in class by mowing outside the windows but it was a very good mower, my daughters rode many a mile on it sitting on my lap. I can fully understand why some of you hated it so much, they say cleanliness in next to godliness but that was not always the case at Lourdes. It was me that either allowed you to freeze or get overheated in class. I would like as many pounds as tons of coke I shovelled into that furnace. How many of you remember the little summer house at the bottom of the lawn to the front of the junior school? And what about that big copper beech tree with the exposed roots between the two schools that I have no doubt you all tripped over at some time or other when rushing to genuflect at the grotto at the top of the main drive?

I do remember you Josie Garnham! You were a real tearawy as I recall! I remember going to your birthday party along Western Road. Mr. Holden, I think I was at Lourdes after you left, but your post brings many memories. I loved that little summer house down at the end of the lawn. We used to imagine all sorts of things about it, what lived in there, etc. And the beech roots got me more than once. When I was there there was another family living in your cottage in the playground and his daughter went to school there with my sister Tara, but I cannot remember their last name. Martin, I am sorry but I have nothing but bad memories of Miss Lamb. She was a cold mean lady as far as I am concerned.

I had almost forgotten about the cottage in the playground. I remember you Mr Holden and your daughter Jill. I seem to recall that she started in the kindergarten very young and only stayed in the mornings at first. She was sick one day and tried to escape to get home! I also remember the long tree-lined wall that ran down one side of the playground. There must have been beech trees as I can remember that we used to collect and eat the beech nuts - not very tasty. The nuts must have attracted the squirrels. How many lawns were there? The place seemed to be nothing but lawns and tennis courts. When we waited outside to be let in, the school milk was at the front and I am sure you brought it in. Sometimes bluetits had got at it, peeling back the silver tops to get at the cream. The grotto incorporated a rosette made of stone fragments taken from Lourdes. I have not forgotten the warm cokey smell that came out of the boilerhouse as it was next to where I used wait for my big sister who was at the senior school and we went past it on our way out to Cornwall Gardens. Miss Lamb was certainly strict, but I do not remember her as mean, but as I said above, it was an advantage being a boy, especially if you were a well-behaved like me. I still have the book I won as a prize "for conduct and work". Miss Lamb always bought me a tin of Quality Street for my birthday. I went from Lourdes Convent to Cottesmore St Mary's Primary School when I was about nine. It was a very good school, but the change was a bit of a culture shock. I had been used to a class of sixteen and found myself in one of forty. I learned that boys were supposed to play football and marbles.

The chapel was a beautiful building with its flying buttresses and Portland stone, lovely on the outside but really beautiful on the inside. I seem to remember it glowed pink when the sun shone through the windows and the nuns seemed to float not walk almost as if they were on roller skates! It was a sin when this building was demolished.
Mother Elizabeth was so kind to everyone, a walking saint if ever there was one. Unfortunately, I believe, not all of the nuns were as kind hearted as she was.
The whole place smelt strongly of Ronuk polish and as there was so much wooden furniture and floors, it occurred to me many times that the place would burn like a torch if ever it caught fire!
There were five staircases in all, two of them were quite wide but the other three were so narrow and steep two people could not pass. I am sure safety rules of today would never allow such conditions.
I took great pride in getting the grounds ready for the First Communion celebrations. I used to get annoyed when parents drove up the drive and ruined the carefully prepared edges by running over them with their wheels. The pupils had the job of collecting rose petals to strew on the path of the procession (the grounds were strangely devoid of roses for a few days!).
Then there were the days when garden fetes were held in the grounds, they were red letter days, particularly for the boarders, mainly because, I believe, being a boarder was not much fun. They had to abide by a very strict regime overlooked, at one time, by a little French Mother Superior. She used to scare me, God knows what her presence did to the pupils. I had the job of weedling money out of her to buy things for the garden, she used to look down the list and say 'waszat' (in a French accent) meaning what is that. It was like getting blood out of a stone.
Overall, the job had its compensations and I enjoyed my time, plus my two daughters grew up in lovely surroundings.

If anyone is interested, there are a few pictures of Lourdes on the Regency Society - James Grey website (www.regencysociety-jamesgray.com).  I have a very old cine film that my father must have taken in the 60s but it's so washed out you can barely see. There is a bit of film of the hall with the words of hymns hanging on a large 'scroll' thing on the wall. Just before the school was demolished I went in with a friend. It was very creepy to see where the nuns used to sleep and to go in all the places we were never allowed. I remember feast days when we had ice cream on the lawn. Although I don't remember what Mr. Holden looked like, I remember his name and the house he lived in. I drove around the back of the flats just the other day and looked at the hockey pitch - it brought back lots of memories. I loved Mother Clare's fruitcake and the overcooked macaroni but my sister hated it. I remember Carol Evers and her sister - was it Diane? They seemed so grown up. There were some other sisters who boarded called Fiona and Siobhan MacKenzie. I was in the same class as Isa Nagle who seemed to be a boarder at 4 years old. Could that be right?

Goodness how the years fly. I was at the Convent from 1966 until 1970 (I think). Memories are not that fantastic. I was not a popular girl being overweight and was teased by most of the girls. My house mother was Mother Bernadette. When I returned to vist the nuns when my father died 10 years ago, they asked me if I had been happy - I said no and told them about Mother Bernadette, only to be told she was a schizophrenic, and was not allowed to teach anymore! It did wonders for my self esteem. However I remember wonderful fruit cake (being a boarder) that Sister Clare made, my skirt being measured by the nuns, once we were made to kneel. Detention every Saturday, walks into Preston Park. My sister Glynis and I going to church on a Sunday in order to get away from the school.  But most of all two wonderful friends who I still think of so often, Isa Nagel who I named my own daughter after, and Carol Evers, they were my port in a storm. I have lost touch with them but would love to regain communication if they wished. I live in South Africa now and have three children, two grandchildren, a wonderful husband married for 32 years, so school must have done something right to be able to be so blessed in life after Lourdes Convent!

Denise, I do not recall your name, but was at Lourdes about the same time as you. My memory is so bad these days! I was in 2nd year Senior School when Lourdes closed and we were moved to Cardinal Newman. I have tons of memories and was thrilled to see the above mentioned site with the photos of the chapel and school. My nemesis was Mother Emelda. I remember spending an entire afternoon locked in the toilet under the stairs next to the hall because she said I looked like a fat sausage in a tight skin. I had donned a pair of shorts as a volunteer ball girl at a school tennis tournament. I have never forgotten those cutting words or her mean spiritiness. Do you remember lovely sweet Mother Elizabeth from the Junior School and the lovely young and tall Mother Teresa? I remember the gardens vividly, the amazing rhododendrums etc at the mouth of the driveway and all the different trees and bushes. And what about the tiny gym/chalet round the back! We were the first class in the new portables behind the Senior School and I recall how Miss Hamilton would have us stay behind to brillo pad off any scuff marks! Oh the memories!

I was at Lourdes Convent between 1971-1972. There were between eight and twelve boys there. I was nine years old, and I very well remember going through the girls' senior school to play sports. I was described as looking like John Lennon and duly captured! I don't remember it being a boarding school, but I well remember the Nuns. Very frightening, some of them. Mother Elizabeth used to make her own ink and if any of the girls cried she would make fun of them. I believe that Miss Lamb is still with us. I didn't mind the rotten food at all, but I do recall the Nun who used to dish out the dinners. She would always say "..some more?" I bumped into Mary Kaucus some years ago, also Denise somebody and David Parminter who later went to Varndean. I also remember the beech tree! Plus a little statue of Mary which is still there. I walked up to Miss Tobin one afternoon and asked if I could leave and go to a proper school. I wound up at Hurstpierpoint College which made my previous miseries seem slight by comparison!

Mr Holden - this is Hillary Thompson, Dorothy Thompson's granddaughter, Tom's daughter. You will remember I lived in the convent cottage? My fondest childhood memories are of your garden, the budgies, Sammy the cat and the packets of crisps you used to leave for me in the big chive pot outside the window. My email address is hippywitch@chaotictainbow.com and I would dearly love to hear from you x

Hello Hillary. It was very interesting to read your post but I am rather confused as to who you actually are. Was your grandmother Miss Thompson who was a teacher in the junior school and lived above the old stable? And could you please check that the email address you have left on the site is correct? Thanks.

Dear Mr Holden, - yes, my grandmother was Mrs Thompson who taught at the school, she lived there with her mother (my granny) Mrs Linton. My dad is Warwick (Tom) he was in the RAF, my mother is Pat. please contact hippywitch@chaoticrainbow.com as I would love to tell you more & find out how you are!

I was at Lourdes Convent from 1948 (Mother Elizabeth's class which was in the room you had to pass through to get to the chapel choir loft) until 1956. Oddly my year in the Sixth Form was also spent in the same class room. Mother Elizabeth taught Art. Do you remember Mrs Dann who taught singing as well as having her own class - very strict, but we won many singing competitions (choirs) at the Brighton Music Festival at the Dome? The Drawing Room (for visitors) usually had a collection of cups and a shield on display. I was a day girl to start with and then became a boarder in 1953. Mother Mary Paul was the Head Teacher and also organised the Chapel Choir with Mother Madeleine. We were rewarded for our efforts by having a tea party on St. Cecilia's Day - 22nd November. Does anyone remember a very old nun called Mother Theresa who was a novice when St. Bernadette was a nun at the Mother House at Nevere in France. Mother Marie was very good at stoolball (like rounders). I have a photo (probably in our loft) of the magnificent magnolia tree, and a few other photos from when I was in the 6th form. On the whole I enjoyed my time at Lourdes Convent, especially once we were in the 6th form and were given a bit more freedom to go out on our own in a small group on Saturday afternoons instead of going on the "crocodile" walks with the younger children.

I really enjoy reading all the comments about the school. It seems a lot was going on that I didn't know about. I particularly appreciate the comments by Mr. Holden, the gardener etc. Thank you for sharing what it was like for you. I live in San Francisco, but hope to be in Brighton next spring and would love to see any of my classmates who are around. I was in the third form with Miss Hamilton in 1954 I think. Then we had Miss Toomey, Miss Loakman, Mother Mary Agnes and finally Miss Welford as our class teachers. Contact me at getdaisy@comcast.net.

How fantastic to read so many comments about my old school! I was there from around 1955 to 1960, as a day girl. I used to travel by train daily from Haywards Heath to Preston Park. My earliest years there are a blur but I remember my final year reasonably well. We were in a prefab just outside the main school building. We were taught by a French nun (Mère Madelaine?) who must have taught me something, as I have been living in France for many years. I think I also remember Miss Hamilton and Mother Mary Agnes. My best friends were Janet Thomson, Myra Ward and Jenny Boella. I know poor Janet died quite a few years ago, but I would love to hear from Myra or Jenny. I remember Myra married her boyfriend Colin, a policeman, and also that Jenny's parents ran an super Italian restaurant on Ship Street, where I had many sleepovers. I have a few photos of us 4 during our final days at Lourdes.

I was at Lourdes from 1952 (kindergarten) until 1963. I remember Avril Boella whose parents had the restaurant in Ship Street. I also had a good friend called Eva Miedziak who used to travel on the train from Haywards Heath every day. I often used to go home with her on a Friday after school as there was a really good youth club in Haywards Heath! I also remember a girl called Jenny Simpson who lived in Hassocks.

I was at Lourdes roughly from 1964 until 1969. I left the convent when I was twelve moving onto Cardinal Newman. Not all happy memories for me. I do remember playing happily in the playground and gardens. The few classmates names I remember are: Sylvia Blatt, Alison Worthington, Susan Foster, Caroline Ham, Alison Gunn, Miss Tussaud and a little girl who lived with her dad in the garden cottage. Sadly, I too remember crying my eyes out in the toilet under the stairs near the hall when I was a homesick boarder for a short time and had salt thrown in my eyes. The beds were hard and you got one tiny pillow to sleep on. My long hair was disliked by the Sister who had to wash and dry it on bath day. The chapel was a beautiful place to be and Mother Clare's cooking was comforting. I have a memory of a teacher running around the school with a shoe in her hand chasing one of the younger boys for being naughty and wonderful Mother Elizabeth trying to put us all at ease. I remember the day when the Sisters could wear a shorter under-the-knee look and you called them Sister and not Mother. Boy! could Miss Hamilton be strict..... in those day you stood up when the teacher entered the room.

I went to Lourdes Convent from 1965 to 1970. I remember Miss Tobin, Mrs DePaiva(?), Miss Hamilton (who was very scary and had lived in India and taught us all about the Empire). I enjoyed Biology taught by Mother Teresa and Mathematics taught by Ms Ship so much that I am now a mathematician myself in the US. My sister was 2 years younger and we left to emigrate to France when I was about 15. I went back to the school a few years later and was heartbroken to see they had torn it down. Although I did get to see some of the nuns (Mother Columbus?, Mother Clare, Other Theresa, young and tall, Mother Elizabeth who taught me to sew), and of course the tall imposing Mother Mary Agnes, after whom I named my daughter. I remember girls called Carol, Allison (who didn't come to religious classes), Ann who had a little sister Pauline who was like a doll, a tall friend of mine who was called Pat and another friend Fiona whose dad had an antique shop. As I have moved around so much, I now live in the San Francisco area, I have never made contact with anyone from those days, but I'd like to.

Hello Susan. You are welcome to contact me via facebook (Brighton & Hove). I had a younger sister at the school - a red head called Amanda Gaffeney, she is three years younger than me.

Janice, you may remember me from Primary School, St John the Baptist. I believe you lived in Sussex Square? I lived in Chesham Road.

I attended the convent between 1958 and 1962 - can't really remember a lot about it as I was 8 when I left. I do remember the long drive and the high wall and do seem to remember being quite happy there.

I am looking to locate Lisa Waltman who wrote 'The Event Groom's Handbook', please contact me if the above is the same.

The girl who was a pupil at the school and lived in the grounds cottage was Mary Wilding (sorry not sure of the spelling).

Susan Holmes - your sister must have been Sarah, and you lived in Ditchling and had a St Bernard called BooBoo?  Sarah and I wrote to each other for ages after she moved to France - long excercise books full - Lord knows what we had to write about! It would be wonderful to get in touch with her. I was known as Gabby in those days (about 1966 till close of play) and my friends were Anne Clive (now living in Cornwall), Mary Johnson (who had a lovely little sister called Pauline), Susan Harmshaw from Haywards Heath (she was the one who named me Gabby, until then I was always known as Lalie), Lucy Hobman whose father was someone big in Age Concern, Alison Reed (gorgeous hair), Anne Turner, oh, so many. I loved it at Lourdes, except for Miss Hamilton - terrifying. Mrs Scaping taught us dressmaking and we made the most awful creations ever! Mother Imelda had a squeaky voice (very Irish) and Anne asked her if she had any hair under her wimple. For anyone interested, I posted some photos on Friends Reunited. Thanks for the trip down memory lane ladies.

I was at Lourdes Convent from 1952 to '64, was also a boarder from '58. Great memories of both the nuns and fellow pupils, Wendy, Teresa, Jacqueline, Sally Mallum and my brother married her sister Pamela. Am living in South Africa now, anyone from my era - would love to hear from you - I am on facebook.

Hi, have just come across this fascinating page. I lived in the grounds with my father Ken who was the gardener/caretaker. My name then was Mary Wilding. I am now married with two children and still live in Brighton. I remember Bernadette Gaffney (really lovely girl) and Lisa, I was good friends with your sister Tara - how is she doing now? Also good friends with all the boarders Lousie Hawkins, Ellen Dunn, Tanya Danjay also Hilary I used to play with you in the grounds, and your lovely gran taught me.

I was in a convent home at St Ann's Well in 1950. I am 60 now and my name is Nina. I think some names I remember are Ann Wall, Richard Charman, and some others. I would like to hear from anyone who  remembers me.

Mary, I am one of Mr Holdens' daughters (see my father's earlier posts). I was wondering what house you lived in at the Convent when your father was the gardener / caretaker. Was it the cottage in the playground of the primary school or the one at the bottom of the drive? What years were you there? This is such an interesting site as our family were so involved with the school over several years. Our mother also worked as secretary to Reverend Mother Agnes for some time and told us many amusing stories about her - despite her stern exterior!

Hi Linda, we moved from London around 1963 when I was four and lived in your cottage in the playground (which is still there as the teachers' rest room come common room). I was in there a few years ago as my children went to St Bernadettes and I was helping out at the summer fair. I ended up making tea for all the helpers in my old bedroom (the small bedroom upstairs). When my mother died (when I was 10) we moved to the cottage at the bottom of the drive. It was called Grove Lodge. I remember your father and I thought he then lived at the cottage near Cornwall Gardens. He was always really kind to me and put up with me asking lots of questions and following him around. I also got to ride on the sit-on mowers with my own father and he also had to shovel coal into the furnace at night. I can remember it as though it were yesterday. How wonderful to share these memories, please ask your father if he remembers my late father Ken Wilding.

Hi Mary. We left the cottage in the playground (we knew it as Grove Lodge Cottage) in 1961. The Mr Holden who lived in the cottage at the end of the large top field, on the way up to Cornwall Gardens, was in fact my grandfather. I can't remember what year he moved there, but it was after we left the cottage (I was 11). My mother died some years ago now but we took Dad back to see the old place, we were still able to recognise some of the trees and other features of the gardens, despite the school being replaced by flats. We bumped into the caretaker who took us into the primary school. So interesting to see the class where both my sister and I started in Montessori at the age of 3! We have a photo of the room when my sister was there, seems virtually the same. Apparently she used to run out of the classroom to join Dad on his mower! And I've got a photo of me sweeping leaves in the playground aged about 8. What an amazing coincidence that we've both found this site.

How lovely to hear from you Mary. I felt quite emotional when I read your reply. I have good memories of you playing in the grounds. I am working in Brighton and live on the outskirts. I look in on this site every so often. I hope to hear from you again.

What an amazing trip down memory lane this site is! I was at Lourdes convent from about 1963 to 1970 when I left to go to Vardean 6th form (better academically but not as much fun). My three sisters were also there -at various times - Teresa the oldest, Mary two years younger and Pauline who was a lot younger! My best friend at school was - and still is to this day - Jill Halford (now Laishley and living in NY). We were both rather naughty at school though I think it had a lot to do with needing to break some of the more petty and pointless rules. Among our misdeameanours were seeing how many of us could be stuffed inside staionary cupborad to hide from Mrs de Piver and a freezing cold hockey pitch; locking Miss Hamilton out of the classroom, which earned us a terrifying lecture from Reverend Mother; repeatedly covering Mr Langridge's piano seat with glow in the dark chalk - though I don't think we put paper in the piano; tying up the Angelis bell out of reach of the nuns and calling the school together for a non existent assembly. (I'm surprised we weren't expelled - although it was a close call on a couple of occasions). I remember Sister Catherine's 'Question Box' which was supposed to provide some sex education but as she invariably vetted it, I think all we were ever told was that 'men are only after one thing' but none of us quite knew what that 'thing' was!

Still trying to find people who were at this children place back in 1950 called St Anne's Home, Lasdale Road, Brighton/ Hove. The place aint their anymore but I was there as a child. My name is Nina Alberici.

Bernadette Fisher - Hi, I remember Mary very well and have often wondered what she is doing now. And Pauline - she was known as Polly, wasn't she? I used to come to stay at your house in Knoyle Road - such happy days. Mary would probably know me better as Gabby. Please let me know what Mary is doing. I'm on Facebook.

I was at the Convent from about 1954 -1959, first as a day pupil then a boarder, I was friends with Sally Mallam, Sonia Metcalf, Anne Wyatt, Ellen Mai and Nancy Ferraria (can't remember all the names). Many memories of those days, does any one remember me?

I went to Lourdes Convent from 1968 until it closed in about 70/71 and we all transfered to Cardinal Newman. I remember Miss Hamilton vividly and her cast-iron control of her classes, Mrs De Piver and the never-to-be forgotten bad food (grey-mince / boiled egg and potatoes). Happy days. I was in a class with Angela Weller, Sharon, Vivien, Janet Durrent. Does anyone remember Francis Miles and her mother Mrs Miles who taught at the school and an older sister who attended? Francis was in my class. Tragically she was knocked down coming back to school after the summer holidays and killed. I have photos of her on a school trip to Brussels. We all attended her funeral. I have never forgotten her and often think of what might have been. I have very special memories of Lourdes Convent and even though it's not there now I always look for it when I pass. I was called Cynthia Riley in those days.

Hi Ruth, I was at the Convent from '52 to '64. I was younger than Sally Mallam who now lives in the States. Her older sister Pam married my brother and she still lives in the Brighton area. There was also an Indian girl called Camilla - can't remember her last name - her father was a dentist - do you remember her?

Dose anyone remember the cook called Agnes in the Childrens' home called St Anne's, Brighton & Hove? I was a child there in 1950. I am Nina Alberici

Have just read the comments from Anne Gee (nee Leach). I was a friend of Pam, your sister, and she lived with us for a while in Brighton before she married Mark. I have also been trying to find out about Camilla Thiru as we were close friends many years ago (I even worked for her father at the Dental Surgery for a while) - we lost touch after she went to live in Ibiza and have no idea where she is now. If anyone has knowledge of her whereabouts I should love to hear from you. I love reading through the messages on this site as it brings back great memories of my school years at Lourdes Convent.

Does anyone know what happened to Mrs Bingham?

Well, I have accidentally fallen on this site, and this is why! I've just listened to Desert Island Discs and heard Frances Wood (British Library) and this made me remember about another Frances Wood who I thought went to Lourdes Convent and who came to De La Salle in 1970 along with girls from Blessed Sacrament Convent in Brighton. So I punched Lourdes Convent into Google! Scrolling through messages, some memories flooded back, as they do! My sister Bernadette went to Lourdes, as did my younger brother Michael for a year. Both then came over to Cardinal Newman. We lived in Burgess Hill and I took the train daily, so often saw Lourdes girls on the platform - us boys dared each other to throw our caps on the line, then jump down and retrieve them! Anyway, I noticed some names that seemed to strike a chord. Isa Nagel - were you doing Latin O Level with Captain JJ Kelly in 1972/73? I was retaking Latin, I actually failed it 3 times each with grade 7 - I couldn't stand the poetry! Carol Evers, I remember you in 6M Cardinal Newman. I think you were doing Geography A Level and you must have come on the field trip to Carmarthenshire in March 1973? I still have my old A level text books. I was very shy with girls (having been at De La Salle since 1966!) but I remember "hanging around" with Priscilla Wong (I think she was at Lourdes), Diana Shields and several other ex Lourdes girls - all doing Latin! We used to go and listen / watch / dance to Dennis Hegarty's band at the Richmond, Rocky Sharpe and the Razors! All happy days! One last thing, if anyone anywhere knows the whereabouts (or his later career) of Capt JJ Kelly, Latin Master from De La Salle / Cardinal Newman, I would like to hear from them. My email address is: art@spitfireart.com

The BBC wants to speak to old Convent girls of all ages. Three 60 minute documentary films are being made for BBC4 about the experience of being Catholic in Britain today. As part of our research, we want to talk to a wide range of women about their Catholic identity. We’re interested in how Catholicism shapes women’s lives, whether for good or for bad. We’re interested in those who are practising and devout as well as those who are struggling or lapsed. We would like to find a number of girls who attended the same school and had the same Catholic education, and then speak to them about where their lives have taken them and the part that Catholicism has played and continues to play. The women could be from the same class and have known each other at school, or be from different years and therefore a range of ages and generations. If you can spare a few moments, we would very much appreciate the opportunity for an off the record conversation which respects your confidentiality. If you are happy to talk then please email Jennifer Forde at jennifer@wingspanproductions.co.uk We very much look forward to hearing from you.

I was at Lourdes convent from 1957-1969. I remember the boys in the primary school and the smelly toilets under the stairs in front of the main hall in the senior school. There were never enough toilets! I remember learning Irish dancing in Mrs Tobin's class and playing stool ball (sounds a bit rude). Beautiful grounds! The names of classmates which I remember are: Bernadette and Theresa Johnson, Sharon Webb, Fiona Jackson, Philippa Lamarque, Cynthia Shields, Victoria Peske, Sarah Gunn, Carol Batchelor, Allison Reed, Victoria Hart (I'm mixing Primary and secondary). The staff I remember: the very severe Miss Hamilton, the art teacher Julia Sexton, Gym with Mrs Da Paiva, Mother Agnes, Mother Elizabeth, Reverend Mother Mary Paul, an excellent Latin teacher now left Patty White?, excellent history with Mrs Bingham, enjoyed English with Miss Welford, a fantastic maths teacher who managed to get me through O level Mrs Fish? The poor very pretty French conversation teacher whom our horrible class brought to tears. Loved singing in Mr Landridge's class! I was shyest in the most troublesome class. Shunned for being the "goody goody". A miserable time! Thank God for piano, a few good friends and Varndean which was a liberation!

Just saw on the St Mary's church site that the last few remaining nuns are moving away. There is going to be a special farewell mass and lunch at the church on the 17th April. http://www.stmarysbrighton.com/ Home - St. Mary's Catholic Church (Hillary Thompson)

In an attempt to maintain some historical accuracy in this wealth of fascinating reminiscence, may I throw in the following: I believe David Fisher's comment of 5-02-2008 is inaccurate in that the site of Lourdes Convent was wholly within the Withdean estate -- in Patcham parish and therefore north of the parish boundary which (on the east side of the A23 at this point) ran to the immediate south of Grove Lodge. The Preston Park Hotel was (as its name suggests) "across the border" in neighbouring Preston parish. Peter Booth (17-03-2011)

Writing under my mum's name. She wants to mention the Névers (Névairs?) order of nuns which has been in Brighton at Lourdes Convent for 107 years. The last two left this week after a ceremony in St Mary's church. It was filmed by South Today apparently.

I was there from 1971-2 when I was 10 years old. It was my first time at school as had been previously taught at home by a governess. On my first day my sister, brother and I were marched onto the stage in Assembly and everyone was told we had never been to school before so could everyone make us feel welcome. Naturally we were teased from that point forward. I remember I was in Mrs Tobin's class, had needlework with Mother Elizabeth and Sister Martha was the fearful old nun in charge. My classmates were Anne Lynne, Mary Kaukas, Amanda someone (Queen Bee) and a pair of twins (Kate & Sarah possibly). I also remember an Alison Cook who Mrs Tobin hated. I remember the bad food -spam, salad cream, baked beans and lumpy mashed potato, all cold, and being forced to eat it, even after I was sick over it.

I understand that there is a book entitled ' Lourdes Convent, Withdean, Brighton - Its history, development and present day activities', published in 1937. Has anybody any knowledge of it as I would love to get hold of a copy. I'm interested in the history of the school having been a pupil 1954 - 1966 , living in one of the cottages there as my father was the head gardener from 1949 to 1971 ( see our earlier posts)

To add to my post above, I omitted to mention Jane Burley and Louise? who had an older sister at the school.

Fascinating stuff! I went to school here from 1965 to 1969, I am remembering a lot of names, and a lot of the teachers too. I have to own up to putting the paper in Mr. Langridges piano, on my last day, and for locking the music room doors from the inside and climbing out of the window, but I wasn't alone. If only I could remember who my accomplices were. I do have some photos somewhere I will add sometime.

Editor's note: If you send me the photos and some info Eileen I will publish them on the site for you. Contact me via: jennifer@mybrightonandhove.org.uk

Referring to the above post "writing under my mum's name" Angela Hubert, the full name of the nuns is "The Sisters of Charity of Nevers". Angela Hubert was a friend of my mother's, though whether they were contemporaries at Lourdes Convent I do not know. When I moved to Cottesmore I often used to walk home up the hill with her sons. I am afraid I only remember Simon by name.

Hi, memories - some good! I was at Lourdes Convent from 1951 to about 1961 - I well remember Miss Lamb - Mother Clair - Moss Tobin - Mrs Thompson - and others! the awful Cheese pie thing! The Chapel was wonderful. Other names Maxine Brooks - Mary Gunstone - Rona O' Brien - Roma Meyers - Pat Whiting - Billy Catchpole - Pat Joyes - Maxine Reilly and loads more - my email address is paddymberry@btinternet.com. Best wishes to ALL and a Happy New Year xx

I have just discovered this site and wondered where are the girls of '58-'64 (some of whom I know the names as above - Maxine Brooks, Mary Gunstone, Maxine Reilly). Is it not time to have another reunion as I missed the last - although was there the night after the Brighton bombing! Living near the Welsh Borders now - my email address is nicky-cox@sky.com.

I have just had a look at this amazing site of memories of Lourdes Convent. My name is now Wilkinson but when I was at Lourdes I was Katy Christmas, somebody must remember the name if nothing else. I was there from 1966 to 1970/71. My younger sister Anna was there too. I was friends with Leela Thiruchelvam, Joanna Reed, Georgina Court. I remember Diarmuid Sexton and Luke ? Also Ildiko Kerekes and Eva Ballantine and I remember going to a great party at Jacqui Hibberds. My memory is hazy about so many things. On the whole I was happy there, but Miss Lamb made me cry a few times and to this day I become anxious having to do any kind of mental arithmetic. I remember the beautiful magnolia tree and seeing red squirrels on the lawn. I was in touch with Leela but that was many years ago now and I would love to hear from anyone that knew me.